Quentin Scott Smith-Sopousek

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To all,

 I felt I needed to post an entry one last time.  My  son Quentin passed away January 28th.  He was exactly 18 months old.  He developed an infection in November.  The bacteria was  burkholderia sepia.  Our infectious disease doctor is one of the best in Atlanta but he had never fought this bacteria before.  In November they treated the infection with IV antibiotics and his labs got better.  He felt better for about 2-3 weeks.  It was the happiest time of our lives.  For the next month or so he was in and out of the hospital.  All the blood cultures kept comming back negative.  They ran every test imaginable but they couldn't find anything definite.  After consulting with the NIH Dr. Malech told our doctor that he was confident it was the Burkholderia.  He told him about what a difficult bacteria it was to fight how it must be overtreated.

I never, never, never, thought CGD would take our son from us.  There are so many positive things we read about how with all the new medications and gamma that it can be controlled.  I always thought if he gets an infection we get him into the hospital get him on antibiotics and it would clear up.  Quentin, as many of your children probably are was on many antibiotics routinley.  He got gamma interferon three times a week.  It wasn't enough. 

I want everybody to always remember that the fight never ends.  Don't ever get complacent.  Of course I feel like if we could have gotten to it sooner he might still be here.  There is no way to tell.  If your children are doing well embrace and enjoy it, but don't allow that to make you forget how serious these infections are.  I recommend if anyone's children grow out Burkholderia sepia that they contact the NIH immediately and fight extrememly aggressivly. 

My heart is broken into a million pieces and I know that everyone dealing with this disease loves there children or your parents love you the way I will always love my son.  Please take care of yourselves and of them and love them with everything you are every day you are blessed to have them in your lives.

I would also like to thank Mary for doing what you do.  You are an inspiration to all.  Thanks

Scott Sopousek, forever Quentin's Dad 


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Submitted by LaDonnaKaye on Wed, 2008-03-19 06:23.

I can't imagine what you have been through. I am so sorry!! There are no words to comfort. Thank you for sharing so much with us.


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Submitted by Bensmom on Tue, 2008-03-04 21:24.

I'm just so broken hearted for you.  My son is now six and very well at present.  Just know that by your posting this that I WILL remember the bacteria burkholderia sepia... and will always know to mention it in his times of trial.  Thank you for coming to share this.  I know it must be extremely difficult for you to have written.  In times of wellness, we do have a tendency to forget how life threatening this condition is.

My prayers and heart go out to your family.  I'll always remember Quentin and his loving family.  God bless you all.

Connie

One day at a time.... and smile. :)


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Submitted by Mary Hurley on Wed, 2008-02-13 18:50.

Dear Scott and Tiffany,

You are in our prayers during this terrible time of mourning. You did everything you could for Quentin – looking into his getting interferon, trying to get the best doctors in Georgia and giving him so much love. CGD is just a mean disease and Burkholderia cepacia is difficult to detect and treat.

Thanks for reminding all of us that we can’t get complacent in this disease and also that a stubborn infection could be Burkholderia cepacia. Perhaps just by saying this you may save another CGD patient because he’ll ask his doctor to consider this infecting organism.

Please let us know how you are doing. I know that the months ahead will be rough. You’ll forever be Quentin’s Dad & Mom.

Mary Hurley